What Size Urn Do I Need for a Child or Infant?
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Urns for a baby or young child are typically much smaller than adult urns, generally ranging from around 0.2 litres for a very young infant up to 2 litres for an older child, depending on age. There's no need to estimate this alone — every family's situation is different, and taking time to choose something that feels right matters more than precision.
General size guide
| Age / stage | Typical urn capacity |
|---|---|
| Infant or newborn | 0.1–0.3 litres |
| Toddler | 0.3–0.8 litres |
| Young child | 0.8–2 litres |
As with adult urns, the crematorium can usually provide an indication of the ashes' weight, which can help guide the right capacity if you'd like a precise match.
Choosing a design that feels right
Many families choose a softer, gentler design for a child's urn rather than a traditional adult style — options include teddy bear and angel-shaped urns, pastel ceramics, or simple, quiet designs without ornamentation. There's no right or wrong choice here; whatever feels most comforting to your family is the right one.
Dividing ashes between family members
Some families choose to divide a child's ashes into several small keepsakes, so each parent, grandparent or sibling can hold something close. This is entirely possible with even a very small amount of ashes — see our guide on splitting ashes between family members for how this is usually approached.
Support is available
If you're navigating this at a difficult time, please know that support is available. Red Nose Grief and Loss (1300 308 307) offers dedicated support for Australian families experiencing the loss of a baby or child, and our team at Premium Urns is always happy to help you find something suitable, gently and without any pressure.
Frequently Asked Questions
What size urn is needed for an infant?
Infant urns are typically much smaller than adult urns, often 0.1 to 0.3 litres, though this varies and there is no need to estimate precisely on your own.
Are there specific urn designs made for children?
Yes, many families choose softer designs such as teddy bear or angel-shaped urns, pastel ceramics, or simple unadorned styles suited to a child.
Can a child's ashes be divided among family members?
Yes, even a small amount of ashes can be divided into several small keepsakes for different family members, if that feels right for your family.
Where can I find support after the loss of a baby or child?
Red Nose Grief and Loss (1300 308 307) provides dedicated support for Australian families in this situation, alongside your GP or grief counsellor.
At Premium Urns, we help Australian families find a memorial that feels right, without any pressure. Explore our infant urns online, or get in touch with our team if you'd like a hand choosing.
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